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Chilvary: The Difference Between A Gentleman & A Deadbeat

In Living on May 2, 2012 at 4:46 pm
It’s a common misconception that women are more attracted to bad boys types while the gentleman types get ignored and left out in the cold.  Many men have come to the conclusion that chivalry is dead because women are unappreciative of their kindness.  Well ladies, we can say without a reasonable doubt, these men are wrong! While we do love a man that has a bit of edge to him, women still want to be respected and treated like a lady.  The main difference between these two types of men is confidence.  Women have and always will love chivalry but if the gentleman does not exude confidence during the first interactions with a woman, there is a chance that she could pass him over.  Unfortunately, there are some us who have fallen for the jerk aka the bad boy over the gentleman  because we devour his confidence and overlook the respect and thoughtfulness that he should expose. Check inside to see what qualifacations we think a gentleman should posses when first meeting/dating you and what signs should make you run for the hills.

 

The Gentleman:

Will take charge.  He should ask you what type of place/food you like; then pick a place like that.
He’ll often smile.   Women respond greatly to positive reinforcement.
He’ll take pride in his appearance. He’ll try to wear something that makes him look like a million bucks. Not only is he representing himself, he’s representing you. 
He’ll be interested in your life.  Surprisingly, a lot of men don’t ask questions.  Women love attention and want to know that he’s curious about us.
He’s a class act.  He’ll open your door, pull out you chair and allow you to order first. He’ll offer you genuine compliments and project kindness to other people that are around you. A gentleman will portray himself with confident, be ambitious and showcase class whether in public or in private.
He’ll respect your boundaries.  Ladies, we’re typically ok with a little physical contact on a first date- a hug at the beginning of the date, the quick touch on the arm while pointing out something or a hand on the small of your back.  He should never have his hands in the red zone areas unless you’ve put them there.
He’ll pay for the date.   A gentleman will take care of the date without hesitation.
 
 

The Deadbeat:

  Shows up late.  This is a bad indication to what the remainder of the date will be like and what you’ll have to deal in the future.
Gets so drunk that he can barely stand or talk coherently.
Goes out with dirty clothes on/ or under dressed. If he won’t put any initiative into his attire to impress you on the first date, he will not do it through out the relationship.
Smokes around you.  Unless your a smoker as well, this is not cool nor does it say he’s considerate of you.
Compares your body to his ex girlfriends. This is an ultimate no no. 
Forgets to mention his children.
Flirts with other women in front of you.  It’s just disrespectful.  What more do we need to say.
Complains about everything. The date should be fun and exciting, not a time to have therapy sessions.
Does not ensure that you get home safely.  If he does not escort you to the door or even call you to make sure you made it home safely, forget giving him a second date.
  Asks you to pay or go dutch.  Sorry but we strongly believe that a man should pay on the first date. 

What other qualifications do you think distinguish a gentleman from a deadbeat? 

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We Run The World! 24 Reasons Why Being A Woman Rocks

In Living on April 23, 2012 at 5:41 pm
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Universally women are known for being unique individuals. As women, we have amazing abilities that men simply lack.  So get ready for an ego boost ladies and see our list of reasons that women rule the world.
Sometimes chocolate really can solve our problems.
We have a thing called women’s intuition.
We can let go emotionally with our friends.
We can wear heels to make us taller.
Woman have curves…men have guts.
We can have babies.
We know the truth about weather size really matters.
Shopping is a spiritual experience.
We can drink fruity and colorful drinks in public without being laughed at. 
We can blame our moodiness on PMS.
We can conceal acne and blemishes with makeup.
We don’t have to plan our Sunday’s around football games.
We can wear men’s clothing and still look sexy.
Spanks!!!( need we say more!).
We know how to command attention without raising our voice.
It’s ok to be a daddy’s girl at any age.
We know how to use our intelligence to get what we want.
We get doors opened for us, chairs pulled out and have heavy items carried
to our cars.
We don’t need a shiny car, big house or a man to define who we are.
We can flash a smile to get out of trouble.
A woman’s best friend…diamonds.  A man’s best friend…a dog.
We were born to multitask.
We are sassy, fabulous, creative and strong.
We know how to make it through tough situations.
So, tell us what you love must about being a women? 


Iconic GIRL Quote: Aaliyah

In Living on January 30, 2012 at 12:00 pm
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“I want people to remember me as a full on entertainer and a good person.”
– Aaliyah

Four Of The Best Methods To Help You Save Money

In Living on January 25, 2012 at 6:00 pm
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Many things that are not expected to occur in the future, sometimes when there is no money needs to be at the meet. Imagine if we want to save, set aside money from the income we get, of course, we can meet these urgent needs. Have you been saving? Save your expenses for your child’s college education, buying a new car, buy a house, or provide for an unexpected need. If indeed you want to have a future better, consider methods save money inside:
1. Open a savings account. Save money in the bank, and any time you can get it for emergency purposes, in this method you can easily gain access to your funds. Have savings you can exploit for the long term or short term, you can deposit and withdraw money to your account and earn interest, based on the daily balance of your average. Note, however, required minimum balance on your account in order to survive.
2. Checking account with interest. With this method you will benefit from the comfort of your accounts, while the deposit you get interest. You also get the ease of such withdrawals and check writing, access to ATM and bill payments that can be done online. This method usually requires a daily maintaining balance of at least $ 2,000.
3. Insured money market accounts. For long-term goals, this method is ideal, because it generally offers a higher interest rate than regular savings accounts. The interest rate usually depends on the amount of money in your bank account; larger balance means higher interest rates.
4. Certificates of Deposit. This is a savings method that requires you to “loan” your money to your financial institution for a certain period, usually ranging from thirty days to five years. Here, the longer period of time again, means higher interest rates. Usually insurance companies offer a deal at a better interest than banks, so before you invest, compare rates first!
So which method would you use to save your money?
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Five Destinations To Spice Up Your Romance

In Living on January 24, 2012 at 12:00 pm
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With Valentine’s Day weeks away, it’s time to think of ways to jazz up your romance. While some are busy making dinner reservations, we suggest you do something different this year: Plan a romantic getaway for you and your special someone! Although Valentine’s Day is approaching, don’t fret, Jones magazine compiled a list of destinations from great concierge services to all inclusive packages to make your romantic getaway unforgettable.
Cupid Takes Vancouver
Escape to OPUS Vancouver and plan a romantic stay with their new Cupid Concierge that will take care of your Valentine’s Day details with a truly personalized experience for you and your sweetheart. Rooms start at $295 per night for the Deluxe Guest Room with sparkling wine to greet you at check-in plus a 1/2 bottle of Veuve Clicquot. You also have the option of a half-dozen roses or orchids including a framed photo of your choice and a handwritten message from you delivered before arrival. The following morning enjoy breakfast in bed for two and take advantage of the leisurely late check-out of 1PM
Contact your personal cupid at least 48 hours prior to arriving to arrange your evening: cupid@opushotel.com
*Upgrade to a suite for $100 more
*Based on availability and valid weekends in February + Valentine’s night
Eco –conscious in Santa Monica
Venture out in Santa Monica, CA, at Shore Hotel, the new chic and eco friendly hotel celebrates Valentine’s Day with a “Pink Goes Green” package. For the month of February, Shore Hotel is offering guests a romantic, eco-conscious package including beachside accommodations and romantic activities and amenities. With rates starting at $469 per night you can experience overnight accommodations at Shore Hotel, Two bicycle rentals for the duration of your stay (which is perfect for a romantic bike ride on the beach), Bottle of organic wine or champagne upon arrival, 60-minute couples massage at Tikkun Spa, and $50 voucher to Santa Monica’s own,The Lobster Restaurant. This is definitely a divine package for the eco-conscious couples.
Stay, Spa, & Splashes for the beach lovers 
The oceanfront Surf & Sand Resort in Laguna Beach, CA shares a shoreline with the calming waves of the Pacific Ocean and serves as a romantic retreat for beach-loving couples. With private balconies and windows and doors that open-up toward the waves below, you’ll not want to leave your room as you take-in dolphin sightings and scenic sunrises and sunsets. Surf & Sand’s Stay, Spa & Splashes package with the rate of $625 includes: One-night stay in beachfront accommodations, signature spa treatment for two, three-course dinner for two at Surf’s signature Splashes restaurant, gourmet breakfast for two (in-room or at Splashes).
Warm things up Caribbean style at Curtain Bluff
Located on 20 lushly landscaped acres on the south coast of Antigua, Curtain Bluff boutique resort can accommodate exclusive romantic experiences, such as a private dinner on the beach or a wine tasting at Curtain Bluff’s wine cellar –the largest in the Caribbean! With a picture-perfect location, friendly atmosphere, gourmet cuisine and a host of outstanding activities, incorporated in a fully-inclusive rate that is truly one of the best values in the region starting at $1,095.
Romance by the sea at Ocean House 
The Ocean House in Watch Hill, Rhode Island offers an idyllic winter escape that redefines seaside luxury. The Victorian-era resort features the award-winning OH! Spa, an outstanding farm-to-table culinary program, and a full roster of resort activities such as cooking classes and wine tastings. With stunning seaside views and fireplaces in many guest rooms – the Ocean House is the perfect romantic New England getaway. The Romance By the Sea package starting at $965 includes: Two Nights luxurious deluxe accommodations, chocolate dipped strawberries and a bottle of champagne in your room upon arrival, specially created romantic five course dinner for two in Seasons restaurant on Saturday, February 11, 2012 featuring The Salt Marsh Opera, Spa Credit of $150.00, and Brunch in Seasons on the day of departure 
Couples/travelers can book this trip now through February 9. www.oceanhouseri.com

Inspiration and Motivation: The Quote Of The Day

In Beauty and Hair, Living on January 20, 2012 at 2:00 pm
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Beauty is not about having a pretty face.  It’s about having a pretty mind, a pretty heart and a beautiful soul.

Inspiration and Motivation: The Quote Of The Day

In Living on January 19, 2012 at 12:00 pm
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Anyone can make you happy by doing something special. But only someone special can make you happy without doing anything.

Inspiration and Motivation: The Quote Of The Day

In Living on January 18, 2012 at 1:00 pm
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Be strong enough to stand alone, smart enough to know when you need help, and brave enough to ask for it.

Inspiration and Motivation: The Quote Of The Day

In Living on January 17, 2012 at 12:00 pm
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“You were born an original. Don’t die a copy.”
– John Mason

Inspiration and Motivation: The Quote Of The Day

In Living on January 16, 2012 at 1:00 pm
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“Take chances, make mistakes.  That’s how you grow.  Pain nourishes your courage.  You have to fail in order to practice being brave.”
– Mary Moore