Can Handsome Men Be Trusted?

In Living on October 11, 2011 at 4:32 pm
When it comes to wondering whether or not you can trust a handsome man, there’s something that you need to understand.
Whether the man is handsome or not has nothing to do with whether or not he can be trusted. That’s a fact. If he’s got the cheating bug in him, he can be Brad Pitt or Quasimodo, and nothing will change that. Naturally, if he’s handsome, he may have a lot more opportunities to go behind your back. More women will be flirting with him then a man who’s not so attractive. But that’s the only difference between whether a handsome man will be more likely to cheat on you than a less attractive man.
Part of whether or not you can trust a handsome man is going to depend upon you. For example, if the man hasn’t given you any reason not to trust him, why would you assume that he’d cheat on you, just because he’s good-looking? You shouldn’t even be going there, because that’s going to make your relationship difficult to deal with. Do you have any idea how frustrating it is to be in a relationship with someone who mistrusts you? It’s a terrible burden. So unless your handsome guy has given you some reason to think that he’s not to be trusted, you should ease up on the suspicions.
One area, though, that you need to watch is how your friends are around him. A lot of women like the playful interaction and attention from a handsome man and just because this happens to be your boyfriend doesn’t mean they won’t make a play for him. It’s even worse if your guy can also work the charm factor and has a sense of humor it’ll make him a magnet. This means that you have a limited number of options, ranging from living in a cabin in the woods in the middle of nowhere to just understanding that he’s handsome and your friends might flirt with him.
A good rule of thumb is to just realize that there are men out there who are going to find you attractive, but that doesn’t mean that you’re going to cheat on your guy, does it? Of course not. So, if you’re being faithful to him, you want to apply the same standards to him. Don’t assume he’s a cheater just because he’s handsome.
Yes, there are men out there who are cheaters. That’s a fact and no one’s denying it. But don’t assume that your guy is going to be stepping out behind your back. Sure, if he has a history of cheating or if he left someone so that he could be with you, you might want to keep an eye on him. Cheating is a behavior pattern that really has nothing to do with how handsome a guy is. But if he has no history of cheating, you should just take a deep breath, enjoy being in a relationship with a great-looking guy, and work on making sure that you don’t let your own insecurities ruin what might turn out to be the best thing in your life.
(spotted at Article Hut)
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  2. trust should never ever be based on looks

  3. I think it's funny because I always said I wanted a hot guy that didn't know he was hot. But then he dresses bad and I'm always nagging to please throw out that ratty shirt 😉 Oh love and trust…funny things.

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